Sensible Stylista

Wardrobe Staple: The White Blazer

For today's post I've featured a flirty LWD courtesy of Charlotte Russe.  I know it's getting colder out, but I can't seem to let summer go.  I'm gonna milk my summer dresses until I absolutely cannot stand the cold any longer...and then keep wearing them with leggings, jackets, and boots HAHA! Whatever.  I do what I want.  Fashion has no rules!  Wear whatever you want, whenever you want.  Just make sure to wear it with confidence.
My new Haute Miss sunnies courtesy of Chictopia.  Super cute, right?
A closer look at my new coral necklace courtesy of Charlotte Russe.  It actually available in blue, too. Click HERE if you'd like to purchase the piece.
My dress actually came with a cute braided brown belt, but I decided not to wear it.  It was cute, but I didn't think it complemented the look.  I have to say that I'd definitely belt it if I wasn't wearing a blazer though.
Blazer:  H&M
Dress:  c/o Charlotte Russe
Necklace:  c/o Charlotte Russe
Sunnies:  Haute Miss c/o Chictopia
Shoes:  5/48 via Off Saks Fifth
Bag:  Coach Factory Outlet

Cat Eye Sunglasses

For today's post, I've styled a casual outfit for ya'll.  I juxtaposed two of my favorite printed pieces for a fun & trendy vibe - I incorporated neutral pieces for balance.
I'm totally diggin' my new sunnies courtesy of Chictopia.  I really love the way they frame my face.  If ya'll are interested, I've provided a link below.  Anywho, I've been obsessed with unique sunnies as of late.  Where do you guys like to shop for sunnies?
 Shoes:  c/o Deb
Shorts:  Madewell
Shirt:  Forever 21 
Sunnies:  c/o Haute Miss via Chictopia ($10)
Cuff:  c/o Lookbook Store ($10)
Cardigan:  Banana Republic Factory Outlet
Bag:  Vintage Dooney & Burke - gifted

The Asymmetrical Blazer

Hey errbody,  I hope ya'll are having a bumpin' weekend thus far.  Did you guys do anything special or fun?  If so, please leave me a comment telling me what you did so I can live my life vicariously through you, haha. I haven't had much of a social life as of late.  I have a bunch of concerts coming up so I've been working/practicing piano like crazy. ANYWHO, I know I don't usually blast outfit posts on Sundays, but I figured why not.
For today's post, I've styled a fun ensemble featuring a colorful blazer courtesy of Reese & Riley.  I actually won the piece in a giveaway a couple of months ago.
I totally felt like a ballerina during this photoshoot, haha. If only.  I wish I was half as graceful as a dancer.  Unfortuantely, I walk like a donkey.  Oh well, it is what it is.  Perhaps my walk will improve.  Probably not.  Yeah, definitely not.  It's ok.  I'll get over it.
Mandatory back shot!  LOVE the criss cross.  What do you guys think of this look sans blazer?  It's super romantic and feminine without it, but I like the trendy vibe the blazer adds to the ensemble.  
Clutch:  Kate Spade - old
Necklace:  c/o Brighthouse Baubles
Blazer:  c/o Reese & Riley
Skirt:  Forever 21 ($7.50 - old)
Top:  c/o Deb ($11.92)
Shoes:  c/o Deb

The Black Maxi Skirt

For today's outfit post, I've featured a sexy maxi skirt and trendy cropped top courtesy of Deb & Charlotte Russe.  If you're interested in shopping this look, links are provided below.
I had a ball styling today's look.  Ya'll know how much I love statement jewelry & animal print!  
Charlotte Russe has a fabulous collection of cropped tops available on their site. Make sure to check out their selection!  Lots of super cute yet affordable pieces, many marked down for $10 or less.  I'll share some of my favorite picks with you guys via ShopSense (scroll down to access the aforementioned widget).
I'm totally loving my new skirt courtesy of Deb.  If you're looking for a form-flattering maxi-skirt, I definitely recommend this product.  In fact, it'll be the best $13 you spend.  Seriously, you have my word!
 Bag:  Prada - gifted
Skirt:  c/o Deb ($13.52)
Cuff:  c/o Lookbook Store ($10)
Shoes:  5/48 via Off Saks Fifth 
Sunnies:  c/o OASAP ($27)
Top:  c/o Charlotte Russe ($10)
Necklace:  c/o Charlotte Russe 

The Vintage Bally Bag

For today's post, I've featured a trendy sweater courtesy of OMG Fashion.  I'm totally diggin' the arm slits.  Don't you just love them? I hope you're nodding enthusiastically, hardy har har.
Shoes:  c/o Deb
Shorts: Forever 21 
Sweater: c/o OMG Fashion ($18)
Necklace:  Stella & Dot c/o LaBelleMel
Sunnies: c/o OASAP ($17.55) 
Bag:  Vintage Bally - gifted

The Aztec Skirt

For today's post, I've featured a sleek dolman top from Deb & a sophisticated aztec skirt from SaVous.  The shimmery silver shirt complements the skirt's color scheme beautifully.  For a finishing touch, I accessorized with a vintage evening bag  & statement necklace to match.
 Top:  c/o Deb ($11.92)
Bag:  vintage - gifted
Skirt:  c/o SaVous ($40)
Shoes:  Jessica Simpson via TJ Maxx
Necklace:  c/o Lotus Blossom Design ($26)

I'm extremely lucky to have sponsors I love. Deb & SaVous always have incredible pieces available online.  If you guys haven't checked them out, ya'll need to get on that STAT!  Here are some of my favorite picks!  Which piece/s would you wear?
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Fall Must-have: The Oversized Sweater

For today's post, I've featured a chunky sweater courtesy of Lookbook Store.  I LOVE wearing oversized knits during the Fall because they're so comfortable.  I usually like to style them with cool leggings & over-the-knee boots.  
Bag:  Prada - gifted
Sunnies:  c/o OASAP ($27)
Tights:  c/o Chicnova ($14)
Necklace:  c/o Aeropostale
Sweater:  c/o Lookbook Store ($24)
Shoes:  BDG via Urban Outfitters ($25 - originally $79)

Classy Cocktail Attire

For today's post, I've featured an elegant peplum mini-dress courtesy of Deb.  This piece is SO versatile.  I could totally see myself wearing it for a fun night out with the girls (think sky-high stilettos & bold accessories) or for a nice dinner out with that special someone (who happens to be imaginary in my case), haha!
Anywho, as I'm sure ya'll can tell, I went with the latter.  I styled the dress with a simple faux-pearl necklace and crisp pointy heels for a classy, polished vibe.  I then jacked my mom's Louis Vuitton to top off the look.  The bag complements my dress beautifully, while conveniently matching my other accessories.  
 FYI:  This dress is also available in black for those of you interested.  As always, the product links are provided below...
Necklace: gifted - old
Dress:  c/o Deb ($32.90)
Shoes:  BCBGMaxAzria via TJ Maxx
Bag:  Louis Vuitton - borrowed

Remix: The Tribal Shift Dress

For today's post, I've remixed a tribal shift dress that I previously featured on Sensible Stylista a couple of weeks ago.  Click HERE to see the aforementioned post.  Which look do you guys prefer?
A fun outfit for a night out with the girls! 
 Dress: c/o Charlotte Russe ($29.99)
Belt:  came with a skirt from H&M -old
Necklace:  c/o Lotus Blossom Design ($26)
Shoes: c/o Charlotte Russe ($42.50)
Bag:  vintage - gifted

Wardrobe Staple: The Statement Necklace

For today's post, I've featured an edgy skater dress courtesy of Deb. The faux-leather bodice is just too cute!  
I paired the dress with an eye-catching necklace from Stella & Dot. You guys know how much I love wearing statement jewelry!  I just couldn't resist...
I won this gorgeous piece of jewelry from LaBelleMel - I was so stoked when she told me I was the lucky winner of her Stella & Dot giveaway.  If you guys love free swag as much as I do, make sure to check out my weekly "Free Swag Sunday" series.
Bag:  Prada - gifted
Dress:  c/o Deb 
Belt:  came with an H&M skirt - old
Necklace:  Stella & Dot c/o LaBelleMel
Shoes:  c/o Deb ($25.83)
Tights:  Talbots Factory Outlet - old 

The Floral Lace Skater Dress

Today's post features a lacy floral dress courtesy of Deb.  Since the piece is strapless, I paired it with a pretty ruffled cardigan for a fall-friendly look.  Then I accessorized with a regal statement necklace and fun starfish cuff.  FYI: if you're interested in purchasing any of the aforementioned items, links are provided at the bottom of the post!
I don't understand why my bag looks crumpled in this photo.  Crumpled bag = grumpy Kim.  TIP:  Stuff bags with old clothing to maintain shape in storage.
I'm so in love with my gorgeous necklace from Taara Jewelry...
A closer look at my starfish cuff courtesy of LookBook Store...
Bag:  Tory Burch
Dress:  c/o Deb ($24.43)
Bracelet:  c/o Lookbook Store ($10)
Cardigan:  Say What via Kohl's - old
Sunnies:  Coach Factory Outlet - old
Necklace:  c/o Taara Jewelry
Shoes:  c/o Deb 

A Little Bit of Lace

For today's post, I've featured a lovely dress courtesy of Choies.  The piece itself is so trendy and cute that I had a tough time figuring out exactly how to accessorize.  Since the dress itself is rich in detail, I decided to keep it simple.  
My Kate Spade clutch matches my dress beautifully while adding a pop of personality!
I chose to slip on nude heels to elongate my legs.

Bag:  Kate Spade
Heels:  Jessica Simpson via TJ Maxx
Dress:  c/o Choies ($41.99)

Bonnie Cribbs on Social Media - Part 2

For today's post, Bonnie Cribbs will be guest-posting on my behalf.  I actually featured him on Sensible Stylista last week.  He answered a slew of  important questions regarding social media.   Click HERE if you want to know more about develop a bigger following!

How do I engage FB “fans”? 

Ask questions. Start conversations. Follow up questions.  Extended conversations.  Follow up comments. Once you can get conversations started with a few, more people are more likely to join in the conversation. 

It may serve you and a few friends to get together and comment and engage on each others’ blogs and facebook page.  This will entice others to join in.  No one seems to want to comment on a status that hasn’t been commented on before until you are viewed as one who has lots of comments.  Odd isn’t it?

How often should I tweet?


This is another one of those million dollar questions.  Every blog and every marketer on twitter should have a target audience and should know the demographics of their following.  Do your followers (as a whole) follow a lot of people or do they follow less than 250?

A tweet only has a shelf life of 10-15 minutes for most users.  If most of your followers follow more than 500 people, that shelf life is much shorter, so it’s ok to tweet frequently.  If you have followers who only follow 20 people, then their twitter feed isn’t seeing a lot of activity and most likely they are not checking twitter much.

I tweet about once an hour.  Most of my followers have 500+ people they follow so my tweets are rather hit or miss for a lot of them.  But for those followers who follow less than 100 people I’m sure I annoy the heck out of their twitter feeds.  My target market includes influential people who are well connected, so even if I am annoying some people it’s ok, because most likely they do not fall in my target market.

All that said, you have to know your target market to make this determination.

The better question to ask is how engaged are you on twitter?  If you are very well engaged and having conversations you are doing the right thing!

How does one manage their time effectively? 


It’s much like managing your money and being on a budget.  You have to tell your time where to go and how its going to be used. 

From your goals you should have a set of tasks and activities that you need to do in order to reach your goals. Start by taking those tasks/activities and plugging them into your schedule.  This way you have on your calendar the things you must do in order to reach your goals. 

Just this week I wrote a post on time management and how to effectively use your time.  Actually, Kim’s question prompted this post - Here is the link to it.

If you do not control your time, it will control you.

I do a ton of Internet Marketing on several social media platforms.  So I have to schedule time that I will be on each platform.  I also have to be disciplined enough to stay focused and work and not play.  Social media can suck hours out of your day, or it can be incredibly beneficial - it all depends on how you use it.

A daily routine that is scheduled out telling your time how it’s going to be used will help you get your time deficit under control.  You have to have a balance of work, relaxation, exercise and fun.

This could have been summed up with one word: Discipline.

Which social media platform do you find to be most “effective”?

The beautiful thing about social media is all of the major platforms are highly effective if used properly.  I believe the answer to this is up to the user and what they enjoy the most.  I always suggest you find a platform or two and master them instead of having 7 different accounts and do none of them well. 

A laser focus on one platform is much more effective than being on multiple platforms and not doing any of them well. Engage & provide value - it’s the key to all of them.

What makes a blogger go viral? 

I believe it’s rapport, like-ability, outstanding content or something so absurd it has to be shared or talked about.  But the latter only has a short term life.  Being a person people connects with seems to be the biggest indicator.  And typically people connect well with great story tellers.

If ya'll want to learn more about social media, make sure to check out Bonnie's blog.  He's also a very active tweeter, so click HERE if you'd like to get in touch with him personally.